dedicated to all the assholes
Lying has always been part of any strategy to raise, but the site is much easier. Memoirs of a seductive disappointed.
Internet can be dangerous. Especially if one is single andis responsible for one of those high-growth projects profesionalque that leave no time to eat, travel to folklore work and, if possible, sleep three or four hours. And it comes Elsabe Sunday, during which no work seinterrumpa surely, and you think how to make you give up and exits lepermitan meet a girl you can talk about something that Notengo nothing to do with the damn project.
Internet can be dangerous because Facebook Argentina, forexample, there are about 1,500,000 female enrollment, from 300 thousand cualesmás are single. Dangerous because 52 percent of local losusuarios MySpace belongs to the feminine universe. Porqueencontrarse with someone you met over the network is too fácil.Y because herein lies the true risk.
The main problem starts when you put a virtual buscaramigas and realizes that, at least in their profile picture, all are delicious. So how do you know something, I Quesea, a woman, through the minimum profile data? Cómoconocer "someone on the day he was born, says Haberler books or music that is supposed to listen to when alone? No sepuede. Believe me you can not. One question. Ask questions, intentacaptar details. It is impossible. All shows enigmatic; distantesaunque loving, cheerful but not very interested.
"The virtual anonymity and the anonymity gives ciertaimpunidad generates," says the analyst Cristina Castillo, specialist and family Pairing Two Center. Generally, in such deencuentros are two things: firstly, the lie, and secondly, thefact that there is usually a distortion between the image you tieneformada himself and the others see. "
On the web there are dozens of communities, yherramientas pages that generate connections between strangers, dating and simplify estimulanel sighting. However, what OscarWilde ever wrote, "who told the first lie sociedadcivil founded." And online, you know, cheating is a strategy of seduction.
With the first, I was in a bar in Recoleta. All ibabien until I said, in passing, which had a enfermedadterrible. "Terrible disease", he said, and made a mental list (I thought the most egregious) than I could ever have. "I'm bipolar," he continued. Comment that somehow reassured me. Latranquilidad not last long. "I'm medicated and I have totalmenteprohibido drinking alcohol," he said, looking at the third cup of Cosmopolitanque just ended. I'm not a very delicate, but sexual laobsesión had the second came to me so scared. In tercerano I recognized: the picture I had sent was the era of perestroika.
And this not only happened to me. Yesterday, a friend told me that unavez, after weeks of chatting, he asked an amazing woman, loving, intelligent, why he was alone. It is rare for a woman asÃesté alone. "I have a 5 year old son. Men is a punishment." "How? A 5 year old son is a blessing," he said, gallant, sinsaber that same Friday, sitting in a bar in Palermo, would come the woman infartante kid's hand.
So every time someone tells me excitedly, delterrible mignon he met on the Internet, I tell him to calm down, that setranquilice a bit and asked the girl sincerely and virtual histeriqueo fuerade all, you make a list, a small listaagregada to the presentation of the profile, with its flaws, or at least, with a brief summary of all the reasons why nuncadeberÃan found.
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