A Child With Their Parents Separate!

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Do not try to assuage my pain with great gifts and entertainment. My heart hurts and it does not heal with laughter but with caresses. All I need is the assurance that, even if they are separated, neither forsake me.

Tell me in words and attitudes that I can still love them both and help me maintain a close relationship with both. After all, it was you who chose each other as my parents.

I put a witness, arbitrator or messenger in his fights and conflicts. I feel used and accountable to fix a problem that is not mine. Keep in mind that everything you do to harm one another, like it or not, first hurt me personally to me.

Do not criticize or belittle in front of me, so everything they say is true. Understand that they have been ill as spouses, are my parents and therefore I need to see you both as possible.

Do not fight to see which one is me because I'm not one, but I need them both. Remember that being with me is a right, not a privilege to have both and I have.

Do not put me in situations where you have to choose with whom to leave, or which side I am. For me it is torture because I feel that if I choose one I'm missing another, and I love them and need them both.

Tell me that I have to blame for their separation, which has been his decision and I have nothing to do. Although this is obvious to you, I blame myself because I need to keep their image intact, and therefore, the only one who may have failed must be me.

Understand that when I get angry after being with my father / mother, not because he / she poisoned me but I am sad and angry I have both because I can not live permanently with them.

I never fail an appointment or a visit they have promised. They have no idea of ​​the enthusiasm with which I await your arrival, no pain so great that I see again because they have failed.

Give me permission to love the new partner of my father / mother. Even in the depths of my soul hurts me to accept it, I want to earn it to keep the parent I think I left her.

Do not ask me to serve as a spy or to tell you how you live or what I do with my other parent. I feel disloyal to him and not want to be a snitch.

I used as an instrument of revenge, telling all the "bad" it was my parent. The only thing for sure is that I will achieve full of resentment against anyone who tries to deteriorate an image that I need to keep very high.

Make sure they understand that although their marriage is over, our relationship is different and always will stand. Remember that although the separation may be an opportunity for you to end an unhappy marriage or to establish a new relationship for me is the loss of the only opportunity I have to raise me by people I love most and I need: my dad and my mom.

Remember that the best we can do for me, now that love is not mutual respect.

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